Last Sunday’s Homily from Fr. Todd
A few of you have asked for a copy of this so here it is. I usually don’t write homilies with publishing in mind so please forgive poor spelling and gramatical errors.
Appreciate everyone’s prayers over the past few weeks!
God Bless,
Fr Todd
Today’s Gospel has a good deal to do with detachment and our ability to remain detached.
I would like to lead you in a small reflection. Close your eyes if you wish but I am going invite you to reflect on some persons and possessions that are in your life:
Think for a minute of your family and who is in that family. Recall faces and names. Think about all the friends and acquaintances you have, again try to recall faces and names.
Think now about all your material possessions and what you own, what you keep in your home or apartment. What do you have in your home? How many televisions? How many cell phones? Do you have beds? Clean sheets? How many beauty products are there or items for personal grooming? Appliances? Do you have a washer a dryer? Sinks? Showers? light fixtures? Do you have a stove? A refrigerator? What about a gardens? Nice landscaping? Do you have cable tv? Satellite? Computers? Internet? Do you have carpet or linoleum flooring? Air conditioning in both the car and house? Heat? Do you have sports equipment? Golf clubs? Footballs, basketballs, Soccer balls? a goal in the driveway? Cleats? Uniforms? Do you have fishing poles? A boat or boats? How many cars do you have? How often do you use them? Do you travel? Go on Vacation? What schools have you attended? What type and how much education have you been able to receive in your life? How is your health? Are you currently alive because you are able to obtain good solid medical care? Do you have another precious day with your loved ones?
Finally, how busy are you with all of these things? How much of your time to they consume?
As many of you know, I had a rather unexpected 3 days in the hospital last weekend. I am very grateful for all your prayers and concern; I am doing fine, and pretty eager to get back to work (I think Fr. Jeremy is also eager for me to begin working). I would like to share with you a couple of things I learned being in the hospital that I think relate to the message of today’s gospel.
One of the things you can do in the hospital is watch and order movies for free using a little button connected to your bed. For those of you who have never been in the hospital, it is not always the most exciting place in the world yet often there is not enough energy to use the time productively. TV can be a welcome diversion.
On either Friday or Saturday afternoon I decided to watch the new Star Trek movie that had a new cast and was supposed to be much more action packed and exciting. I felt that it certainly delivered and really enjoyed the movie. However an interesting thing happened in the middle of it that caused me to reflect a little on my attachment to material goods. In the middle of the movie, during one of the more exciting sequences, I received a knock on the door and one of the hospital chaplain’s came to visit. He sat down we had a nice little chat. I told him I was a priest and we talked a little longer about parish life, family, careers, and the usual chit chat. He eventually went one his way and I went back to watching the movie. Here was potentially the problem: The way the movies are set up in the hospital you can’t pause, stop or rewind them, so I missed a huge chunk of the movie, almost ten minutes. However here was the actual problem: I was almost tempted to ask a person created by God, sent to me to minister God’s presence, to come back later because a mechanical device of entertainment almost seemed more important. How many times have we all done this? How many times have you or I let this happen in our relationship with God? How many times have our many possessions and activities distracted us from a perfectly good opportunity to pray or be in communion with God?
A second thing I learned was this. As pastor of St. Monica I am pastor of one of the largest communities in the Archdiocese with a huge demographic of people that we serve. We have multiple activities going on at any given time and they all begin right about now, the fall. I am an incredibly important person. Next weekend, begins Christ Renews his parish retreats, we are starting all of our Adult formation classes, great programs like Just Faith, Catholicism 101. We are inviting people to consider becoming a part of the Catholic Church, We have Youth ministry, children’s religious education, our school, that have begun or are about to begin. We are continuing our strategic planning, looking at our future and how we can at deepen our spirituality, our understanding of stewardship, continue school improvement, and our understanding of ourselves as a diverse community with a common mission. Additionally, I have a budget to be concerned about, a large staff, and any number of decisions large or small that need to be made on an almost daily basis. Along with Fr Jeremy I am responsible for seeing that the Gospel is proclaimed, that Sacraments are administered, and that we our serving our local community effectively. Did I mention that I am in incredibly important person?
Here’s what I learned in the hospital: that I was gone for three days, on a very busy weekend, and everything went just fine without me. In fact, an argument could be made that things went much more smoothly. While I have responsibility to serve St. Monica to the best of my ability, I am not indispensible. I can check out if the Lord needs me too and for the most part everybody’s lives will go on just fine. How many times have we done this? How many times have we not taken advantage of opportunities to grow closer to God because we are too busy, we are too important, because we think the world will fall apart without our presence?
I think we have something very important to learn from today’s challenging Gospel:
1) We need to recognize that everything we have is a gift from God, everything. This includes your material possessions, your life, and the lives of the people around you. You do not own these things you care for them. Everything we thought of in our reflection is gift received. God can add God can take away.
2) The Gospel reminds that our possessions are not who we worship, God is. We should be able to detach from them at anytime in order to be in relationship with God. If our material possessions distract us from spending time with God, they are a problem. I invite you to practice “detaching”…Turn off the TV for a day, sleep on the floor, don’t text for a week, take the bus one day instead of driving, offer these up as forms of prayer and as way of being aware of the many gifts you have.
3) The Gospel reminds us also that we are not God. We should always be able to trust our activities to God. I recognize that we have to work at home and away in order to provide and care for our families, but most of us still make time for many other things. I invite you to consider a retreat this year, a time away from all the many distractions. Give a God a chance to be a part of your life in a special way, away from the hustle and bustle. I would recommend any of the CRHP weekends coming, but there are multiple other places as well. Our local Fatima retreat house offers a wide variety of retreats, Get involved in some of our local formation programs here at the parish, Go pray at one of the local monasteries in the area, or just take a day and spend it by yourself with you and God.
Today’s Gospel reminds us in a very challenging way that our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ is the most important person in the world and we should, at a moment’s notice, be ready to follow him wherever he leads us.
